Nathan Grimes Lubbock, TX, United States
Posted: 2022-09-15
Chapter 9-Persistence
Taking a good look at the subject of persistence, I think of the years Connie and I had together. I have to ask how we stayed together for 51+ years. The simplest answer was to be we started every day with a decision to love each other and to persistently work on our marriage. Our life together was built on faith in God and faith in each other, which is a must in all relationships. Yes, it was only with persistence and faith that we overcame the difficulty life threw at us. Our son Jeremy was born weighing only 2 lbs. 9 oz. Connie had cancer in 1980. Lost our house and had a car repo in 2011. Connie was diagnosed with end-stage liver disease in 2013. But with persistence, faith, and love we were sustained. It must be remembered that persistence is the steadfast effort necessary to induce faith. The power of will is the very basis of persistence. Willpower and desire, when properly combined, make an irresistible pair. I think Mr. Hill gives us the formula to gain every goal and desire we may have: Desire multiplied by willpower plus persistence will equal the attainment of our objectives. (D x W) + P = O But why do most people (the 98%) fail to be persistent? Mr. Hill wrote, “The majority of people are ready to throw their aims and purposes overboard and give up at the first sign of opposition or misfortune.” A few (2%) carry on despite all opposition until they attain their goal. These few are the Fords, Carnegies, Rockefellers, and Edisons. How do we overcome the lack of persistence? It is easily conquered when we depend entirely upon the intensity of one’s desires. In other words, fire up your desire and put action behind it. “The starting point of all achievement is desire. Keep this constantly in mind. Weak desires bring weak results, just as a small amount of fire makes a small amount of heat. If you find yourself lacking in persistence, this weakness may be remedied by building a stronger fire under your desires “Two consciousness are before us, poverty and money. A poverty consciousness develops without conscious application of habits favorable to it. The money consciousness must be created to order unless one is born with such a consciousness. “There is no substitute for persistence! It cannot be supplanted by any other quality! Remember this, and it will hearten you, in the beginning, when the going may seem difficult and slow. Those who have cultivated the HABIT of persistence seem to enjoy insurance against failure. No matter how many times they are defeated, they finally arrive up to the top of the ladder.” Napoleon Hill Knowing what one wants is the first perhaps, most important step toward the development of persistence. A strong motive forces one to surmount many difficulties. Persistence is based upon definite causes, among them these: definiteness of purpose, desire, self-reliance, definiteness of plans, accurate knowledge, cooperation, willpower, and habit. A “symptom” indicating weakness of persistence I have decided to defeat is procrastination. Why? For I have allowed alibis and excuses to delay actively building my business. But no more! My goals are set, and I am aiming high. Mr. Hill gives us four simple steps to the habit of persistence. They are: 1. A definite purpose backed by a burning desire for its fulfillment. 2. A definite plan, expressed in continuous action. 3. A mind closed tightly against all negative and discouraging influences, including negative suggestions from relatives, friends, and acquaintances. 4. A friendly alliance with one or more persons who will encourage one to follow through with both plan and purpose. It is here at Mentoring for Free that I have found the strength to live by these 4 steps. I thank Linda and MicheL Dlouhy and the whole Mentoring for Free family for th=w caring spirit shown on every call and lesson written. Nathan Grimes Lubbock, TX USA