Ben Drake West Ryde, NSW, Australia
Posted: 2020-12-23
It’s taken many decisions to get where I am right now, to achieve the health, the family and many areas. A couple of these are the decision to get married. That was A choice which made many years ago that would get married and have a family. For some they choose to leave that life alone. Having met many before meeting Jenny a number of times it turned out to be about hooking up rather than a physical relationship.
Often they were less deep relationships, although there was a deep caring at my own end for the other party it was there own choice to accept the caring or otherwise. Often the decision was made to let the party’s response run own life. Shutting down love for many years to believe that love and a relationship would solve all the issues.
That was A poor decision that needed to learn. Another huge decision has been needed to be made many times to focus on health knowing it’s gonna be ok. When first came to mentoring for free it was after A few years being dedicated to improved health and going to gym getting healthy after 4th dislocation of a knee cap. In the Years prior I had tested successfully a number of products to get healthier.
It took a decision to be healthier, it’s taken a decision to go within 18 months I’ll be a full time stay at home dad, raising our kids and have health challenges under control, having walked away from where I am right now. It was a decision at the start that Jenny was going to be the one for life, that the ones who only sought other forms of relationships were not right personally. Those relationships are what some seek, just not myself.
Thank you so much to the team from mentoring for free for helping to discover the amazing decisions that have made. A special thank you to Ken Klemm and Linda and Michael Dlouhy for all Your ongoing love, support and encouragement. A huge thank you to my amazing wife for life Jenny for your constant love.
Your friend and mentor for life,
Big hugs our friends,
Ben Drake
West Ryde Nsw Australia
Helping families of Australia and New Zealand to live better lives
Ps there have been many decisions from those within life which have let impact and run my own life parents decision to no longer want dependants anymore walking away from their marriage is their own choice as much as it hurts. It’s their same decision to be involved in their children’s lives.
pps what we say to ourselves is A decision on it's own.