Ben Drake West Ryde, NSW, Australia
Specialized knowledge is knowing that no matter what happens You are unable to make someone else happy at all. They are responsible for their own happiness. They can Yell at You to shut up, say Your too slow, say do as Your told for a change or any number of other words in the end its their issue. The knowledge that it's the persons issue is part of specialized knowledge on it's own.
Rather than You taking ownership of someone else's problem that is a priceless knowledge. It also shows where Your true friends and supporters are they standing there supporting Your goal or dream or standing there saying do You know how big that is going to be or any other words that can be used to attempt to pull You down to that person's level.
We learn that knowledge in mentoring for free it's specialized knowledge on building relationships with those in our lives and working out which are the positive relationships and which are the destructive relationships.
Would You listen to the friend who messages You back knocking Your attempts to keep a chat going or the person who keeps up the conversation on the post You've just put up. That my friends is the power of who do You listen to. Also specialized knowledge, it's taken many years to be able to sit back and notice just which influence is coming at that point.
Knowledge is being happy within Yourself knowing You have done everything You can and there is goanna be upset from those within Our lives it's their problem not ours, they can choose to be upset or choose to stay calm. It takes specialized knowledge to realize that we may of spent many years attempting to keep a parent, friend or loved one happy. It's their issue as everything we do they can be unhappy about.
Ben You can spend Your life working to keep those happy or you can choose to be happy within Yourself. There will always be someone who has a big mouth and has to say something about any area it could be a simple as saying to chat somewhere else I am working here when the whole team is standing there chatting away. It's the persons issue and we need to use our specialized knowledge on relationships to look at if we really want them in our lives.
It's Your choice. Follow Your own dreams they are Yours forget what is said by the naysayers for they will rarely be happy with any decision You make Ben.
thank you so much to the amazing team from mentoring for free, especially my wonderful mentors and friends for life Ken Klemm and Linda and Michael Dlouhy. Thank you also to my amazing wife for life Jenny.
Your friend and mentor for life,
West Ryde Nsw Australia