Ben Drake West Ryde, NSW, Australia
for many years the default autosuggestion was that of those who had grown up with especially my own family that would listen to all their programming over the years and the time came to start programming My own mind rather than listening to all the old programs that have been installed over the years. this deafault programing ranged from diet, health, neutrition, fininicial, parenting, even management of emotions, listening to the persons reality and accepting that as truth rather than using my own self talk.
I am needing to be saying to Myself and believing in Myself that I am able to achieve that goal or dream which I am working towards at that time. Saying so firmly to Myself that its achievable, there have been many times when have said that it was doable and achieved that goal or dream. one of the times was when met Jenny.
having a relationship breakdown owing to differences in what we were looking for in a relationship and who we were as a person unable to accept the differences between us both and how the other person was also, I said to myself that the next woman that met and dated would be the one who was going to marry. 3 months later after saying that to myself regularly Jenny came into my life, my memories of that one day were our hug goodbye and going from there. months later I was ready to propose and we got engaged.
for Our wedding, I kept on saying that the day would be a beautiful spring day to Myself and it turned out to be a absolutely fantastic day as beautiful as could imagine within my own eyes. these days I keep on saying that I am a stay at home dad, despite hearing the programming from the family about many areas of life and needing a job, that is their own belief rather that My own belief.
I know deep within my own heart that I am working towards providing for our family, it is going to happen and each day draws us closer to that day when We are free and able to do as We want rather than having to be tied to working as both Jenny and Myself do. Even earning enough that we can raise our kids rather than putting them in care fulltime. It will take a lot of visualizing and turning that energy towards that life and in the end it’s going to be well worth it.
It wasn’t until came to mentoring for free and learnt what was doing and needed to do to achieve those goals that had been working towards all of my own life. what had been doing for many years without even being aware of what was going on.
It makes little difference the number of people who You share Your book with, ask for a date or share what You are doing as when you believe You will win you will win. You will be tested to see how badly do You really want what You are going for. When You say to Yourself with Your selftalk or Auto suggestion You will succeed its only a matter of time.
Thanks to my amazing wonderful friends, family at mentoring for free and those who have taught so many invaluable lessons. Thank You to Michael and Linda Dlouhy, Ken Klemm and my Amazing wife Jenny for Your own ongoing love support and encouragement which each of You continue to give.
Your friend for Life,
West Ryde NSW Australia